Writing Process Blog Tour

I was asked to participate in a Writing Process Blog Tour by a very talented, awesome writer named Adelie & of course… I accepted.

I’m excited to be a part of a blog tour that showcases the how & why behind fellow bloggers’ writing. I’m a curious person… sometimes the more accurate word is “nosy” I suppose, but I like to see what makes people tick.

Before I talk about myself a whole bunch…I want to tell you about Adelie, my friend who writes over at Artfully Aspiring.

To sum it up in one word, Her writing is meaningful. I encourage you to check out her fiction as I promise you…it will take you exactly where she planned. The words she puts together paint a story that make it clear that writing is her passion & personally…I am so happy she is sharing her passion with all of us. She certainly inspires me & I wouldn’t be even the slightest bit surprised if you felt the same exact way.

Here’s my leg of the tour…


I am currently working on only my blog, Properly Ridiculous. I still consider myself to be a bit of a newbie as I started just a little under 4 months ago. With that being said – I feel like my blog has opened up the flood gates for ideas & I am working on developing this new found passion of writing. Right now, I’m establishing a writing calendar so I can at least appear to be more organized.


I’m not exactly sure if there is a “genre” for my writing as I seem to bounce around a bit. Is there a “sarcastic-opinionated-mom” genre?

Something that I feel sets my writing apart from others in general would be the opinionated nature & the fact that I am not hesitant to write and share exactly how I feel. 


To entertain you. To make you agree with me (or not). To make you see my point. To produce laughter.  To vent. To inspire. To learn. To research. To provoke emotion.

I write what I write for all of those reasons & then some. I want to leave my mark, no matter how small it is. Even if just one person felt as if they gained something from my writing – I have accomplished something.


Process? You mean like… routine? Yeah, I don’t have one (yet).

I write impulsively. I carry a notebook with me, and when something strikes me – I write it down; as soon as I have the opportunity I am typing like a mad-woman. I do not hold onto drafts. I don’t go back and tweak them… I have zero drafts right now in my folder.

With that being said…

As I continue moving forward in my blogging journey, I’ve realized that I could absolutely benefit from a process. Which brings me right back to my answer for ‘Question A’ way up there…(Sidenote: it’s driving my OCD brain bonkers that the questions are listed as letters rather than numbers). 


If you’ve made it this far… you’re a lucky duck…I’m about to grace you with some people who can entertain you.

You’re welcome.

The first person that I want everyone to go check out is Mr. Bitter Ben over at Ben’s Bitter Blog. His tagline is, “We Make Bitter Better”… now, if you don’t want to go check out his stuff based on that alone, I’m not sure I want to associate with you anymore. Yes, you.


Ben’s blog overall – is cynical happiness. (I love me a good oxy-moron). Here’s an example of his bitter humor:  Bitter Irritating Friday Giftures

Introducing: Bitter Ben.


Hi, my name is Ben and I blog over at Ben’s Bitter Blog.

I’m 41 years old, I have a wonderfully nice wife that puts up with all my bitterness, and 6 year old boy and a 9 year old girl that have been taught in the ways of the Bitter since they were young.  

I’ve been blogging for over 2 years now and I guess you could say that my blog survives for three reasons.  Phones, Humor, and Ideas.

It started because of my hatred of my bitter hatred of phones.  Not the cool phones that let you text or surf websites or play with apps or that you use to talk to pleasant people.  I’m talking about the ones that are used in customer service, which is the job I have.  The people on the other side of the phones that I work at are angry, bitter, and upset people.  After a particularly frustrating day at work, I came up with an idea that I thought would not only make money, but would soothe the frustrations of not only the customer but me.  A 1-900-BITR-BEN phone line that people could call where they could pay to complain to me.  Tell me about your job, your house, your family whatever.  The catch is that phone rep could complain back.  At the end they would both laugh at how ridiculous they were and money would flow to me. When that didn’t happen, someone told me that I should write a blog about all the things I’m bitter about. So I started one.

Humor.  It’s fine to be bitter about things, but if you don’t have a sense of humor about it, people will tire of it really quickly. I’ve always wanted to be a comedian, and I am funny, but not to a bunch of people on a stage.  I would freak out if there was any sign of anyone in the audience not liking anything I said.  I found that I have an affinity for writing (other than grammar) and words and comedy and bitterness seemed to have just the right mix of things that would make an interesting thing to not only read, but write.   So the blog was the perfect avenue for it.

Ideas.  I am full of them.  I am an idea factory.  I have them constantly, either in dreams, or driving around or just common objects spark ideas in me.  So with the common theme of Bitterness, any idea that comes to me can be put out there, as long as I relate it in any small way to Bitterness.  And how hard can that be? For me, not hard at all. 

So phones started it, humor makes it interesting, and ideas continue to fuel it.  Kind of like how a fire needs fuel, heat and oxygen.

The next person that I am going to introduce you to is Sam who blogs over at What 24 Looks Like. She is super funny & brings light to many situations. Her confidence and lightheartedness really comes through her writing. I love her, you’ll love her…

Introducing: Sam


My name is Sam, and I’m 24 years old. It’s my first full year being out of college and my life is wrapped around a 9 week old black lab and his super diva mam, a library, and a small town I grew up in. It hasn’t been easy moving back to such a town so small but it’s such an interesting journey and I’m learning to embrace those southern roots. I may be snobby with my literature and loose with my TV shows. I believe in flower crowns and signature nail polishes (mine happens to be light mint green). I honestly see myself as a perfect mix of Mindy Kahling’s shallowness, Liz Lemon’s view on life, and Leslie Knope’s over exuberance. Meaning I’m a real girl who loves pizza and Netflix but I also get over excited and tend to go overboard on different things! I love baking, cheese and anything that has to do with chocolate.

If you’ve made it this far – you’ve successfully completed my part of this tour. I sincerely hope you check out Ben, Sam, & Adelie’s blogs – you won’t regret it – I guarantee it!**

**I don’t know you that well…so I can’t actually guarantee it…but, the fact I was willing to say it – should at make ya want to take a peek.

15 thoughts on “Writing Process Blog Tour

    1. That’s a huge compliment… Thank you! 🙂

      I have always enjoyed writing…I journal’d here and there & dabbled in some of my own personal pieces…but this is certainly a new-found passion & I’m having a lot of fun doing it!


  1. Thanks for the tour stop at the BBB. You have such kind words for a bitter old man. I guess it must be because I am one of the few Vikings fans outside of Minnesota/South Dakota.


      1. Party of 2. As soon as someone else joins, I will cede my VP position to someone and I will just be a charter member that collects money, like the original microsoft guys.


  2. Wonderful post!!!! One of the many things I admire about you is your ability to speak your mind AND leaving your readers entertained, enlightened, and I’m sure a whole lot of other things. Anyone can ramble misinformed opinions, but you cover relevant and interesting topics and you share your perspective with tact, eloquence, and good humor. I also love that you reference your own life as well, as it’s always a blast to learn more about you and your guys! Like Tammy said, when I first came across your blog, I couldn’t believe it was nearly the same age as mine. You have a ton of content and it’s so eclectic- definitely something for everyone. Also, I’m truly baffled that you’re able to have such wonderful posts without having a regular writing schedule. I would say whatever you’re doing is definitely working, but on the same token, I’m excited to see what you come up with on a regular basis. You always inspire me to be a better writer and to see the world in a different way. On behalf of all your readers, thank you, and please never stop!
    Also, I’m incredibly grateful for the generous compliments you always give me and my writing. You really do give me too much credit, but I sincerely appreciate it because there are some days where I’m losing my steam, and you always have the most wonderful things to say that help me keep going. I’m also very glad you accepted the tour- I know I kind of sprung it on you, and it was quite daunting, but you did a spectacular job here, and it was awesome to learn more about you… And now my novel comes to a close. I love you and your writing, Jen! Well done! 😀


    1. Thank you so much for your super nice compliments! I am glad we are able to keep each other in check & help one another realize that there is no steam to be lost! We just keep chuggin’ along and writing our little hearts out, because there’s NOTHING STOPPING US! I’m totally 100% confident in saying that had we not stumbled into our friendship, that my blog would not be the same! Thanks for being you. You’re awesome.


      1. Yes, I truly appreciate our exchange of steam, especially over the past few weeks! To be completely honest, at the risk of sounding corny, my blog also wouldn’t be the same had I never met you. I wouldn’t be the same either. I cannot tell you how many smiles your comments have brought to my days and how your support and encouragement has stopped me from giving up countless times. I’ve also struggled for several years with being open with people for the fear of rejection and abandon. You’ve accepted me from the beginning, and I can never thank you enough for that. Your blog was awesome long before me, but I do really appreciate that you think so highly of me. 🙂 Keep on rocking, Jen!


  3. Great recommendations! I can’t believe you have been only blogging for 4 months as well, your blog is awesome (if I haven’t said that before hehe). I’m nearing close to 3mths blogging and it feels like it has been longer…don’t know if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.


    1. I think it’s a good thing if it feels like you’ve been blogging longer than you have. I feel that way also & just chalk it up to the fact that I’ve WANTED to blog for so long. I feel like it’s such a compliment & reassures me that I’m doing something right when I hear that people thing I’ve been doing it longer. Thank You 🙂


    2. I think it’s a good thing if it feels like you’ve been blogging longer than you have. I feel that way also & just chalk it up to the fact that I’ve WANTED to blog for so long. I feel like it’s such a compliment & reassures me that I’m doing something right when I hear that people thing I’ve been doing it longer. Thank You 🙂



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